How to Overcome Destination Wedding “Guest Guilt”

Exhilarated with the idea of having a destination wedding, but concerned how your guests will take it? Why, it sounds like you’ve got a case of “guest guilt!” But not to worry – these expert tips should help!

We hear it all too often: “I want to have a destination wedding, but I’m concerned what my guests will think of it.” Yes, guest guilt is a very normal feeling! It just means that you care about your loved ones and you are concerned about making the best decisions for everyone. Here’s what guest guilt usually looks like and how we can help you overcome it so all you’re guilty for is having the best wedding ever!

“I don’t want to ask guests to spend money on a trip.”
If you know your guests are on a tight budget, we’ll tailor our resort recommendations to fit! Remember, the great thing about working with a destination wedding travel expert is that we’ll work with you one-on-one to meet your (and your guests’!) specific needs. Trust us... choosing the cheapest resort is not the solution. We want to make sure your guests are happy with their vacation investment and that they are getting a good experience and a great value. Together we’ll find the resort that meets all our expectations. Yes, your guests will need to spend money to celebrate your wedding, but they are getting an entire vacation and a lifetime of memories as a result. 
 
“I don’t want guests to use all their vacation days to attend my wedding.”
Not to worry! We can book guests for different lengths of stay, so those who are tight on vacation days don’t have to miss out. In fact, it’s quite common for guests to come for a long weekend to celebrate with the couple – so don’t stress about it too much! Guests can make it work with as little as 2 days off work, assuming a normal Monday through Friday schedule. We almost always incorporate a weekend to make it easier on guests. We’ll help each guest create the trip that works for them.
 
“I don’t want to ask guests to leave their kids at home.”
No biggie! If a lot of your guests have young kids, we’ll narrow down your options to family-friendly resorts, so they don’t have to leave them at home. Trust us, your guests (and their kiddos!) will love these properties! If there are just a few parents on your guest list, it is a good idea to have a quick conversation with them. You may be surprised how eager they are to have a quick getaway without the kids in tow. This gives you the option of choosing an adults-only resort. If your group has a mix of everything, we can find a resort that has a family side and an adult side. Problem solved!
 
You see!? There’s no need to succumb to guest guilt. In fact, our destination wedding specialists will help you work through all of your concerns. We’re here for you, and we’re here for your guests. So go ahead, bring ALL your guest concerns to your call with your planning specialist – we’ll tackle them with you one-by-one. 

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